Dakota Johnson opened up about a bizarre audition experience where showing basic manners reportedly cost her the role. The 50 Shades of Grey star shared the story during a recent interview with Hits Radio while promoting her new movie Splitsville.
The Audition That Went Wrong
Dakota recalled that during a past audition, she greeted everyone in the room and shook hands before performing the scene. “I went into the room and I shook everyone’s hand and introduced myself,” she said.

Despite her polite gesture, she received unexpected feedback. The casting team interpreted her handshake and introduction as being pompous or “schmoozing.” Dakota admitted, “I was like, what? I didn’t get the job because they said that I was being cocky.”
Maintaining Positivity
While the experience was confusing, Dakota remained positive. She described the situation as “pretty crazy” but emphasized that she was simply displaying good manners. “I just had manners,” she added with a smile.
Promoting Splitsville
The actress made the appearance on Hits Radio as part of the promotional tour for Splitsville, which premiered in the United States in September 2025. The film is now set for release in the United Kingdom, where fans are eagerly anticipating Dakota’s latest performance.
Why This Story Resonates
This unusual audition anecdote highlights the unpredictability of the entertainment industry, where even polite behavior can sometimes be misinterpreted. Dakota Johnson’s experience serves as a reminder that actors often face challenges beyond their talent and preparation.
