As Jennifer Lopez navigates life after her recent split from Ben Affleck, she’s turning to a trusted figure in her life — music legend Janet Jackson — for support, guidance, and inspiration.
According to a source speaking to In Touch Weekly, the connection between Jennifer Lopez and Janet Jackson isn’t new. Their friendship began over 30 years ago, when Lopez worked as a backup dancer for Jackson and even appeared in the music video for That’s the Way Love Goes in the early 1990s.
“They’ve been pals and occasional collaborators for more than thirty years,” the insider shared.
Janet Jackson: JLo’s “Guardian Angel”
In recent years, as Lopez pushed forward in her acting, streaming, and music careers, Janet has quietly offered her support behind the scenes. The source described Jackson as a “guardian angel” for JLo, always cheering her on and stepping in with advice and encouragement when needed.

One powerful example of their enduring friendship came during the making of Hustlers in 2019. Jackson granted Lopez the rights to use her iconic track Control for a key scene — a rare move, as Janet is famously selective about how her music is used.
“That alone was a huge deal for Jennifer,” the source said. “Janet rarely allows her music to be used in that context. Jennifer will always remember the kindness of that gesture.”
A Bond Forged Through Shared Struggles
Beyond their careers, the two artists share a deeper connection through similar life experiences. Both have faced the ups and downs of the music industry, public scrutiny, and high-profile divorces. According to the insider, this common ground has only strengthened their bond.
“They’ve both been underestimated, faced personal struggles in the spotlight, and endured the chaos of fame. That kind of shared experience creates a lasting bond,” the source explained.
Today, as Jennifer Lopez rebuilds her personal and professional life, Janet Jackson continues to be a pillar of strength and wisdom.
“Janet looks at everything Jennifer has accomplished and feels nothing but pride. Their friendship means the world to both of them,” the insider added.